It’s all about love…

1 Comment

Sadly, things have gone a bit strange recently. I’ve made mistakes, she’s made mistakes and we’ve both been stressed. But now, I’m being told I could find a better girl, and should find a better girl, and all the time, I’ve said no. And I stick to it. This whole argument of finding someone better is all because she’s upset with everything happening. But here’s my side, as I haven’t been listened to that much.

I first met Saira on Sidepodcast back in January 2010. It was an auspicious moment, we wouldn’t have found each other otherwise. But things grew and we clicked and fell in love. She’s done many lovely things for me, and I try my best to do the same for her, even with limited resources.

Yes, there’s been a few troubles and I’ve got upset, and she’s got upset, but, you know, the great times I’ve had with her have been so much more than a few times where she’s upset me. No matter what happens, she’s still someone I hold very dear and love very much.

Yes, she’s upset me, and sometimes severely, but people make mistakes. I’ve made quite a few, although it pains me to admit that (but that’s my flaw), and upset her, but she still loves me, as I believe. And I don’t know where this whole “You should have someone better and not put up with me.” has come from. She’s a delight to be with, I honestly mean that. I can’t think of anyone I’d rather spend my life with than her. Yes, I may be blinded by love, but there’s a reason why I love her in the first place.

And yes, I do. Truly. Even with her flaws and occasional upset, she’s still overall a lovely person, and just really, honestly, I couldn’t ask for better. I just wish she’d hear me when I keep telling her that. So please Saira, know that I love you dearly, and, while I could do better, I don’t want to. I’ve found happiness where I am, with you. And don’t be too hard on yourself, you’re caring, intelligent, loving, forgiving, everything I could ask for.

You Can Call Me Thomas

Leave a comment

<rant> I’ve always been Thomas, until Middle School, when teachers suddenly started calling me Tom, and so did my friends.I was alright with it, but really I was still Thomas. Then, when my parents got involved with my Scout group, where I was also Tom, four years ago, they decided to pick up the trend of calling me Tom. Just because I let everyone else do it, doesn’t mean I want to be Tom to everyone.  It soon propagated through the family and I still cringe every time. Thomas is more me than Tom is. My laptop, old computer and iPod all say I’m Thomas, as do all my accounts online. There are few people who do call me Thomas all the time, just maybe I like them all the more for it… </rant>

5 Reasons Why I Love Windows 7

Leave a comment

I got a new laptop for my birthday, it has Windows 7 on it. Coming from a Windows XP system and having never really used Vista that much, I’ve become up-to-date quite quickly. I love it, here’s 5 reasons why, in no particular order.

  1. Aero – Aero is fancy. Aero is also quite cool. I can take a quick peek at Twitter or another program by holding my mouse over the relevant desktop icon. It’s handy for quickly looking at something.
  2. Jump Lists – These are so incredibly handy. Whether it’s on the toolbar or in the Start menu, I can do tasks and open recent files quickly.
  3. The new taskbar – The taskbar is so much better. It’s not cluttered when you have lots of windows open, as the icon stays the same size and the quick launch is integrated in with the open programs, giving quick access!
  4. ‘Ribbon’ interface – Many programs now have the ribbon interface, which is a vast improvement. The buttons are clearly set out in tabbed groups, making it far easier to do things.
  5. Integration of programs – In Windows XP, iTunes was just another program. However, here, it’s recognised as a media player, and so is treated as such. It means I can use it like I would Windows Media Player and function keys for playback work with it, as well as Aero’s media player controls in the preview box.

Sorry, felt like writing that. Seriously, Windows 7 is good stuff. Really good.

Writer’s Block

Leave a comment

I have a writer’s block. Not that I’m a writer by any means. So many people over the years have been convinced that I’m a good writer. There was my English teacher, who, despite my protests, was convinced I could write something amazing. I wasn’t so sure. Sure, I had ideas, but nothing I thought could be transferred to the piece of paper. To me, my style of writing was clumsy and all over the place. To make it worse, I was always slower than most people and took a lot of time to just write one side of A4. This made me rubbish. Then there’s this blog. I’m not entirely sure any of it is any good and bound to make for good reading, yet I’ve been told that I’m a good writer because of it. Obviously, I’m doing something right and I should not pay any attention to myself.

My writer’s block has, ironically, spurred on this post. I was going to write about astronomy but I couldn’t (if you want to know more, ask me, it’s honestly the only way you’ll get it). Discussing it on Twitter, I looked at how I write my posts, the process it all happens in and it’s rather spontaneous. I don’t plan, I don’t decide when I want to write, I just get a spark of an idea and go about it, much as I’m doing now. I tried earlier to map my points on astronomy on OneNote, in my own ‘”notebook”, but that failed. Only way for it to work was to do it on a whim.

So, I guess I’ve broken through my mental barrier. Back to normal then!

Reasons Why 2010 Could Be The Best Year

Leave a comment

2010 is almost at an end, and I’m actually sad to see it go. Usually, it’s because I am only just used to writing ’10′ as the year in my dates and I get forced to learn the new year, which is hard! But this year has been different. As well as the low moments, I’ve had some incredible highs… In chronological order:

  • 10th January 2010 – I encounter Saira for the first time. Little do I know how much she’ll change my life at this point.
  • 3rd July 2010 – Goodwood Festival of Speed. An event I’ve wanted to go to for a few years and now I have! As well as being the first time I met Saira in person, who kindly paid for me to be there. Begin to truly adore her.
  • 18th July 2010 – Fly from Heathrow for the first time, heading out to Nepal.
  • 19th July 2010 – Arrive in Kathmandu, Nepal via New Delhi, India. Furthest away from home and first time in Asia, as well as first time away from family for more than a week.
  • 23rd July 2010 – After two days of bad weather and depressing waits in Kathmandu, finally start trekking to Everest from Lukla. Flight rated best ever.
  • 25th July 2010 – First glimpse of Mt. Everest, seen from just outside Namche Bazaar. Perfectly timed with break in cloud.
  • 30th July 2010 – Step onto Everest Base Camp, realising dream to go there. Emotional moment.
  • 31st July 2010 – Wake to snow (in July!!!) before a very early climb up Kala Patthar to watch sunrise over Everest. One of only three from school to do so on the ridge.
  • 2nd August 2010 – Arrive back at Lukla, completing a two week trek in only 11 days, aged 17 1/2. Celebrate accomplishment and Saira’s birthday with good meal and new favourite alcoholic beverage, Everest beer.
  • 5th August 2010 – Trip down river in canoe with crocodiles. See wild tiger paw print. First time riding elephant, managing to see rare rhino and baby.
  • 7th August 2010 – Return from Hotel Marshyangdi in Kathmandu to Sir John Leman High School in Beccles in just 20 hours.
  • 16th October 2010 – Day with Saira in my area. Norwich failure but lunch in Southwold, strolling hand in hand along the pier and sitting together in her car cement relationship. Becomes colloquially known as ‘first date’

Ok, I will admit that a lot of that was about Nepal, but that’s because it was such a major thing for me. Life changing in fact. Feel free to post about your 2010!

 

Elementary, my dear Saira…

Leave a comment

I’ve discovered a hidden talent within myself, one that I never thought I had. It is the fine art of detective work. Using very minute details, I was able to work out something that I’d normally have to be told to know. It was like I was Sherlock Holmes! My story goes like this…

I had just taken a pretty photo of the sunset out of my window, and posted it for all who follow me to see. Then, when chatting to Saira, I made a passing and humourous comment about the fact it gave away clues as to my secret location. She then got interested, and did say she knew what town to look in if she wanted to find me. Then, she challenged me, saying ‘I bet you don’t know the town where I live!’. Not being able to refuse a good challenge, I then took to looking at what I knew already.

I started with a nearby town she mentioned before, which, for the purposes of this exercise, I shall call ‘V’. So, I knew that she said V wasn’t brilliant, and also, the fact that she had to drive there gave it away that V wasn’t the place. I then turned to information, quite a small piece, I had been told in Goodwood planning, the nearest Underground station. This was ‘W’, which was still a short drive from the target.

I then theorised that the location had to be south of W, because putting it north would mean it would be closer to several Underground stations. This then led me to narrow down my selection to three places, within a set distance. X, I thought to myself, was far too close to either V or W. It couldn’t be that. Y seemed too far away and so I instantly counted that one out. That left one option, Z.

As it turned out, my reasoning led me to the correct conclusion. I decided that I wouldn’t go any further than the town, as finding the road would be impossible. Saira did also say it was too difficult, I agreed and left it at that.

She, however, had taken to trying to find my house, as some sort of attempt to get back at me for finding her town. I had to make her look at the clues, from the photo I had taken earlier, and one I took ages ago. She didn’t have the patience for that, and so found the lane where I took the earlier photo by chance, because she liked the name of it. With a bit more help, she found me.

I was then challenged to find her, only using my judgement and tiny amounts of information that I could remember. My first port of call, was the fact she sometimes talks about a lack of parking, which to me, suggested a cul-de-sac, or a small estate with a limited amount of parking. That gave me something to look for.

I also assumed that she worked in a hospital, and so found one that I thought was likely. She walks to work in 5 minutes, so I asked for walking directions from the hospital, and began to move the destination around, looking for around a 5 minute walk. However, the hospital has two entrances, a main entrance and a back entrance. Getting the right door was crucial. From my previous experience of hospitals (as a visitor, never a patient, I’d like to point out!), the eye clinic was around the back. So I picked the back entrance, and started searching for places 5 minutes away. I started off on a road I thought was suitable, but it turned out to be only blocks of flats. I knew she lived in a house, so it couldn’t be right.

Well, I said house, she calls it a ‘split level maisonette’. As she said this, I was looking at another potential road. It had houses, but to me, they didn’t look like anyone could call them a split level mayonnaise, as I said, because I don’t speak French. So, I looked at the road opposite. It seemed perfect, and so told her my guess.

Nope and I can’t even find it…’ I was told, before she added ‘Hahaha…. that’s so funny….’ and also ‘I’m so stupid!’. I had told her where my guess was, and named the road opposite to clarify where I was looking. She said I’d already said the right road. There was only one other option, the road I had looked at when I thought they didn’t look right!

So, I was literally 100 metres out, on a guess made from tiny clues, and assumptions on my part. I was absolutely kicking myself for looking at the right road, and then going to the one next to it. That’s the most disappointing sort of miss, to be so close to it! However, it was still impressive that I was so close, especially on how I got there.

I was accused of cheating, because it seemed so impossible that I could have worked out where she lived on so little information. But, there’s no clear way to cheat, she never said where she was, and she’s never given away big hints. All I knew before last night was ‘South London’.

So, for one night, I was Sherlock Holmes, and I did it rather well too…

Nepal 2010: Everest & Elephants

Leave a comment

You may have noticed that I disappeared for a while recently, to go on holiday. I feel now that I should probably tell you all about it, as it was quite a holiday!

Our story starts way back in June 2009. A teaser had just been released in school, advertising a trip to Nepal, and Everest Base Camp, for the Summer of 2010, the next year. I should explain that it’s been a dream of mine to visit Everest, the highest mountain in the world, and see it for myself, for many years. As a young boy, I would sometimes see television programmes or books about it, and want to go to Base Camp. So, I jumped reluctantly at this new opportunity, but was concerned that I wouldn’t be able to afford it. My form tutor, Ms Rudge, assured me that she thought that money would be no problem, and so I went to the presentation a week or so later to find out what it was about. That convinced me to go, and Mum agreed to let me, as there was a plan in place to fundraise as much as possible. So, the £400 deposit was paid in July, and I was in.

A new start came in September, as I moved up to Sixth Form. Our first fundraising meetings were called, and we began in mid-October with a Sponsored Hike, which raised a fair bit. We also did bag packing, car washing and all sorts in the run up to the trip. In the mean time, we had lots to sort out, as I didn’t have a passport. May 2010 came quickly, signifying exams, and the date when the money was due. Luckily, Mum and I managed to scrape together the amount, somehow, and paid it off. Then it was just the wait, a long wait, with all the pressure of exams, for the end of the school year, and the holiday itself.

Because of the length of time that we had been booked on the trip, being excited about it was hard, and I don’t think it was until a few days before we left that it all suddenly hit me.

And so, it came closer and closer, until we got to the 18th July 2010. The leaving date. It’d been a date etched into our minds for over a year, and it was suddenly here. We were to leave the school at 1pm, by minibus. So, that left me the morning to finalise getting ready and to say a final and meaningful fairwell to everybody I was leaving behind. And so it began, with a three hour or so ride to Heathrow’s Terminal 4. Once there, we waited a short while for check-in to open for our flight, before doing so, waving goodbye to our baggage, which we wouldn’t see until Kathmandu the next day. I got randomly checked at Customs, which didn’t help me much, I was already confused and slightly nervous because I had never done it before without my parents guiding me. We then spent a few hours in the vast departure lounge, buying things like sweets, before regathering to board our plane.

9W121 was on a 777, which is quite big. I was sat in the middle of the plane, between Caitlin and Jack. We were impressed by the entertainment system, which had the normal movies and television programmes, as well as games, flight info (which I spent most of the flight looking at!), and inter-seat messaging and telephone! I went to the back doors to take photos, even getting a good one of the sun rise at about 1am BST, somewhere over Russia/Kazakhstan.

About 7 and a half hours later, we arrived in New Delhi, at Terminal 2 of Indira Gandhi airport. Security there was a bit intimidating for me, they hardly spoke English and had guns. Fun. We passed through fine though, and sat in the plain and not very exciting departures lounge. This is where we met Andy, our leader from Far Frontiers. He was a pretty cool chap.

We then got on a bus, which took us to the hard-stand and our waiting 737-800, 9W262, which would get us to Kathmandu. Next to our aircraft was a very official looking business jet belonging to the US Government. We still don’t know why it was there! On the hour and a half flight, there was enough time for a beer and another meal, which was surprising to me.

After the bumpy flight, we descended into Kathmandu Valley, landing at Tribhuvan Airport just after 2pm. We collected our bags, and was greeted with a flower garland, and people trying to carry our bags for money. It was complete madness. We climbed into our private bus, and set off through the monsoon rains to our hotel in Thamel, the main tourist hotspot of Kathmandu.

Kathmandu is a huge city, and the streets are chaos, utter chaos! The traffic laws are there, but they aren’t really obeyed, and so it’s pretty much a free for all. Oh, and there aren’t seatbelts on the bus! Horns also go off everywhere, Will even had the theory that the horns wore out faster than the brakes did. After a frankly eye-opening ride, we eventually arrived in Thamel, and our hotel, the Hotel Marshyangdi.

The hotel was rather fancy, and we were due to stay there for 2 nights, before heading off to the Everest Base Camp trek. We were allowed to explore Thamel without adult supervision, and so went out to explore and find something to eat. It was a pretty scary place to walk around for the first time by yourself, I didn’t like the fact that we were lost either, but luckily, we found our way back to the hotel safe.

The next day, our first full day in Nepal, was spent mountain biking. After a long bus ride up a winding narrow road, we got to the top of a hill, where there was a big observation tower made from scaffolding. Health and Safety doesn’t really exist there, and so we were climbing this almost vertical ladder about 20ft off the ground, with only a handrail or two! We then went down and set off on our bikes down the hill.

The hill was actually quite steep, and so acceleration and speed were phenomenal! It reminded me of Bruno Senna’s video of him going down the hill at Goodwood in the MP4/8, it was that fast! Adam managed to fall off the edge of a small hill, taking a tent with him. Luckily, it wasn’t a massive cliff and he escaped with a few bumps and bruises. And so, an hour or so’s biking later, we arrived back at the bottom of the hill, with a stop for lunch half way down. We stood because a leech came out of the ground after Andy! Lunch contained a large cheese sandwich and a big bar of Dairy Milk, made in India with sugar cane instead of beet. It was pretty melted! I think I only had to pedal on three separate occasions, and even then, it was hardly anything. We then headed back to the hotel, then out for the afternoon in the famous Durbar Square, full of people pestering us Westerners with offers of tours and strange curios, all for money, of course. After which, we got lost getting back to Thamel, so got rickshaws back to the hotel, a bumpy ride indeed!

For the next couple of days, we woke early and rushed to Tribhuvan airport only to hear that Lukla, the airport at the start of the Everest Base Camp trek, was closed due to bad weather, something that had been going on for 6 days in total, which was incredibly uncommon. I was incredibly upset at the threat of coming all that way and not getting to the one place that mattered to me most. Andy let us have a third attempt at trying, before we would have to give up and go for the Annapurna circuit instead. So, that Friday morning, we woke early as usual, and were told that Lukla was closed. But, we were to wait in our rooms for further instructions, and we’d be called as soon as it was open. 45 minutes or so later, we were on the bus to the airport, cheering! Within the hour of being called from our rooms, we were boarding the little Dornier Do-228, ready to go!

I got the front seat behind the pilots, as I love aviation and flying, and Dave recommended I sit there. I got to see into the cockpit and watch the Captain do all the flying by hand, which was cool, as well as enjoy the scenery as the hills got taller and taller. Lukla is famous for it’s tiny runway, and the fact it’s on the edge of a hill! Landing, you’re facing the hill, taking off, you’re running down towards the 200m drop! It was impressive, and we sat there for an hour, drinking tea, and watching the aircraft come in and out.

And so, we set off on our long trek to Everest. I struggled with altitude on the first day, and ended up sleeping all evening in Monjo, trying to shake off a migraine. The second day was tough on the legs, climbing to Namche Bazar, a big market town on the trek. It was a lovely place, and very colourful too. It was a shame that we missed the market day, which we would have arrived on if we were on schedule.

We then had a rest and acclimatisation day in Namche, which involved a small climb up the hill behind the town and coming down around it, a short walk of only a few kilometres. Before that though, we went to the Sagarmatha National Park visitor centre, where we had a well timed cloud move away, giving us our first ever view of Everest. That was a pretty special moment. Anyway, we continued, going up the hill, and finding the dirt runway of the airfield there. It’s too high to fly into directly from Kathmandu, because it’s over 3000m above sea level, which poses a risk of altitude sickness to those not acclimatised. We then took a look in a small monastery on the way down, before being given the whole day to relax, as we had finished 3 or so hours out walking by 10:30 am! We looked around the town, buying a few souvenirs before heading back to our lodge.

The next day, we made our way to Tengboche, home of the famous monastery. It was a massive climb after a descent to the river at lunch. I was suffering with illness that day, and so struggled up the zig-zagging climb. I managed though, and we dropped down the other side of Tengboche to Dingboche. From there onwards, it was more gradual climbing, going up the valley side, before climbing a hill towards the end of the trek to Pheriche, where we had incredibly poor visibility on the final stretch! By this point, we were higher than the tree line, and the place was starting to look like how I imagined the Himalayas, a barren landscape, interrupted by small villages.

We had another rest day in Pheriche, where we had an early morning climb up the hill behind the lodge, called The White Yak. It was a steep walk, followed by a plateaux, then another incredibly steep climb up a rounded edge of a hill, to a set of prayer flags, at almost exactly 4500m above sea level! We took in the incredible views of the mountains around us, Ama Dablam being the closest. We also saw Lhotse (4th highest mountain in the world), Island Peak (a trekking peak, where no climbing is needed, just a good pair of boots, warm clothing and a set of crampons!), Mehra Tse and others. This was really impressive, and exactly the sort of place I came to see, which made me happy. We headed back down to the lodge to enjoy our day relaxing. I caught up on my travel diary, while others went out and enjoyed the rare sunshine. I did also get a chance to eat my Minstrels that I bought in Heathrow Airport.

We had two more days climbing to get to Base Camp. The first day saw us walk alongside the river in the mostly flat valley past Pheriche, before turning up the terminal moraine of the Khumbu Glacier, which was a steep climb. From there, we walked through poor weather to Lobuje, where we warmed up for the night in the lodge, made of plywood, mostly! There was also a pool table at the back, and we spent a few hours playing on it, I won a couple of times, and was actually getting good, potting some cracking shots!

The second day was a long day. We walked up the median moraine of the Khumbu, climbing steeply at one point, but then had to climb across a rocky path, and also a waterfall to reach Gorak Shep. We arrived earlier than expected, so we only had soup as a mid-morning snack, instead of having a full lunch. We then got handed a packed lunch each to take with us.

This was it, the final push to Base Camp. In a couple of hours, we’d be at the famous place, where dreams come true and shattered. Anticipation was rising in me, and powering me along stronger than before. In fact, I was at the front the whole way up that morning/early afternoon! The final part of the trek to Base Camp was a descent down a pile of rocks to the glacier itself, and then scramble across part of it to the boulder marking EBC. We had to be careful that there were no rocks falling on us as we walked, and were asked to keep 5m away from each other, to minimise risk to many of us if a rock were to fall. The scramble across the loose stone on the glacier was a bit tricky, but we made it.

At around 12:20pm Nepali time, I stepped up onto the flat area that was Base Camp, marked by two large boulders covered in prayer flags and the photos of people and their loved ones that had been left behind. It was an emotional moment. I had tears in my eyes because I had done it, I had achieved my dream that I had for so long, and despite the fact that I didn’t think I’d be able to afford it all. I was there, and no matter what, not even the fact that the weather was bad, or the fact there wasn’t much to it, I was overjoyed. I just wished my parents were there too, as they had sacrificed so much to get me there. My thoughts then turned to people back home who knew me. Would they be proud to say they knew someone who’d done this? I hoped so. And so, 25 minutes later, we headed back down to Gorak Shep to recover and sleep.

We got woken early because it had snowed overnight, and a thin layer covered the roof of the lodge! And so, as the clouds around Everest were clearing, we headed off for Kala Patthar, a big hill just by Gorak Shep, to watch the sunrise. It was another steep climb, most decided to only go halfway up the climb to the ridge, but Andy, Dave, Jake and myself continued on to the ridge, where we were greeted of amazing views of all the mountains around us in the early morning sun. And then, a few minutes later, the sun rose right over Everest’s peak, which I managed to get a great photo of with my cheap little camera! That was my favourite sight of the whole trip, and something I will never forget.

We then headed down the trek once more. We were aiming to get from Gorak Shep to Lukla, about 45km in total, in three days. The first day saw us go from Gorak Shep to Pangboche, below Pheriche, stopping at The White Yak for lunch. At Pangboche, we got our first meat in over a week! Yak steak and chips was brilliant!

Day two of descent was from Pangboche to Namche Bazar. We were going slightly slower than expected, fatigue was starting to hit most of us, and so we didn’t go to Monjo like Andy hoped. My knees were also killing me as they didn’t like the steep drop from Tengboche to Phungi Tenga. Namche was a good place to stop though, arriving early afternoon. We then had a chance to sit down and relax properly (or run round the town, dodging the rain, like Jake, Will and I did!) and maybe buy a few nice things. I bought myself a Buff (Google it if you don’t know) before heading back to the lodge.

Day three was down the steep climb to Namche. Luckily, my knees held out this time, and we soldiered on to Phakding for lunch, where we stopped for lunch on the first day, and then to Lukla in torrential rain! Poor Alex was severely ill that day, and had to be carried down, first on a Sherpa’s back, then on a makeshift stretcher. Fortunately, he recovered as we had our last night with the Sherpa team that served us so well. We gave them each a tip for their kind help, and said words of thanks, before signing Sarah’s t-shirt to pin up on the ceiling of the lodge. Dave then presented each of us with our own ‘Everest Base Camp’ badge, to congratulate us on our fantastic success!

We woke early to perfect flying weather, and so rushed through breakfast. The Sherpas gave us each our trekking pass and a traditional Nepali shawl, which was lovely. Then we walked about 20 metres to the airport ‘terminal’, ready to board the first flight out of Lukla! By 9:30 that morning, we were back in the luxury of the Marshyangdi! We relaxed, went out into Thamel a bit, had showers, and had a meal together out in the garden. I had a bottle of Everest that evening, which was nice.

The next day was Caitlin’s birthday, and so we celebrated at breakfast with animal shaped balloons and a small present from the group. We then got on the bus for the long journey to Sarauha, on the edge of the Royal Chitwan National Park. It was a long and slow ride, and we had to stop at one point because the fuel hose split. We had also stopped for a rest at a restaurant by a river called The Blue Lagoon. Luckily, they got hold of another pipe, and the bodge job lasted until the hotel.

The hotel was nice. The rooms were in separate groups of 4, surrounded by a pond. The most important thing about the rooms though was the air conditioning and giant ceiling fan to keep us cool! The food was also good, we got fresh mango at one point! There were also lots of lovely little lizards everywhere.

We ate, I had a nap, and then got rudely awoken to be taken off for a walk through the village. This made me grumpy, but it was still alright. Houses there are still made with reeds and mud walls, and grass roofs. We also saw some camels and a Marsh Mugger crocodile!

The next day was busy! I started off before breakfast, watching a rhino across the river. Then, after breakfast, we set off in dug-out canoes, made from just one piece of wood, obviously. From the canoe, we saw a Gharial crocodile, several White-Throated Kingfishers, a few Pied Kingfishers, and some Egrets. We also saw a wild elephant walking along the river bank. We then got off the canoe and went walking through the forest. We found a massive termite mound, taller than me! Also saw tiger paw prints, but unfortunately, no tiger. We then arrived at the Elephant Breeding Centre. I didn’t like that, because the elephants were chained up, and they were being brutally trained for military purposes.

We then went back to the hotel for lunch and a rest from the  hottest part of the day. Then we were picked up from the hotel by elephants and taken off on a safari through a community forest. It was amazing to do, I was excited because I’d never done it before. We saw a deer before coming across a one-horned rhinoceros and its baby, which was incredibly cool. We got within about 10m of it, because we were on elephants. The other tourists in the jeep were at least 40m away! We also crossed a couple of deep rivers, yet another fun experience on an elephant, before heading back the the hotel for our last night in Chitwan.

The next day was spent getting back to Kathmandu on the bus. Andy said that last time he went from Sauraha to Kathmandu by bus, it took him 12 hours! We hoped that it wouldn’t for us. The traffic was smooth, and we made good pace. We stopped at The Blue Lagoon restaurant for lunch, a buffet meal of various curries, rice, noodles and more, paid for by Bhanu, generously. And from then on, it only took us another few hours to get to Kathmandu, and we were back by mid-afternoon.

We spent the time relaxing, and wandering around Thamel for our last time. It was sad for us to think that the trip was coming to a close all of a sudden, and although we were looking forward to home, we knew that we would miss Nepal. I had another bottle of Everest beer to relax with in the hotel room before dinner.

That night, we went out for one final meal together as a team, me being slightly wobbly from the beer. Dave took us to a Thai restaurant in Thamel, where he was paying! It was some lovely food indeed, and of course, another large bottle of Everest (I’m not an alcoholic, honest!)! It was all very lovely, and there were a couple of small speeches from the teachers. We gave Andy his thank you present, signed by us all, which he loved. He then said we were a fantastic group, and showed yet again that our school was top!

We then slowly headed back to the hotel, soaking up the evening atmosphere of Thamel one last time. We stayed up together a while, chatting about the trip, and what we were going to do when we got home.

Our flight was early, so we had breakfast and got to the airport for 7:30 that morning. After a long queue to get in, we checked into our flight, got sent through many security checks before finally getting into Departures, half an hour before boarding. We climbed aboard 9W263, after yet another security check, and headed off to New Delhi once more. It was sad to say goodbye to Nepal though, it held so many memories now.

In New Delhi, we were treated to the new terminal, T3, which had only just opened since we arrived there 19 days ago! It was built for the Commonwealth Games in a few months, however, not much else has been built, like stadiums! We transferred through and spent time in the new Departure lounge. It was a massive improvement on T2, although I wasn’t happy seeing a McDonald’s there. I did, however, pay WHSmith a visit, and bought F1 Racing as a treat, with some of the last of my hard-earned money, which was in USD by this point. Then, we got our call to board the plane for the final time to London!

We settled into our seats on 9W122, and I saw a Gulf Air aircraft with the F1 Bahrain GP branding on it! This pleased me massively. Then we set off. The Captain initially said it’d be an 8 hour flight, longer than our inward flight. However, this turned out not to be the case, and we landed half an hour before the schedule said we were due to land, which was good!

Britain was a shock. We actually breezed through Customs! I just handed the woman my passport, she checked it, was rather friendly and loved hearing about our trip, and then I was off to collect my check-in baggage. And then, we didn’t get searched, just walked straight out of Terminal 4!

It was also here that we said goodbye to Andy, our beloved leader. He was a pretty cool chap, and he helped us through and got it all done. He hugged us all in turn (by three weeks together, you’re pretty friendly with people!) and we said fairwell. Then, we eventually found our mini-bus back home to Suffolk.

The journey was quick, although that could have been because I was asleep most of the time. At 9pm, we stopped at Chelmsford to stretch our legs, and our driver said that we’d be back home by 10:15.

He was right, and so at around 10:15, we pulled into the car park of Sir John Leman High School, where we left our world, and our families, 20 days ago. We stepped off the bus, and collected our bags. We then slowly found our parents, waiting to see us. I said goodbye to everyone and got into Dad’s car and off home. And that ended it. Nepal 2010.

Looking back, it seems unreal. Nobody can surely have a holiday that fantastic, surely? Apparently, I did. Against all odds, I achieved a dream. I could suddenly relate to Jenson Button back in October 2009. I felt like a World Champion myself and I was on top of the world. It’s also given me a few lessons in life, about the world, and more.

But what can I take out of this for all of you? To you, I will say one thing that I have proved, and I strongly believe you should follow, and that is this:

Follow your dreams, no matter what might try and stop you, for when you find them, it’ll be the best moment of your life.

I personally guarantee it. There was a time when I thought I wouldn’t be able to go to Nepal, because of money. I didn’t let it stop me trying though. And when it looked like we couldn’t fly to Lukla, I never gave up hope that we’d get there. It was a difficult trek, but I let none of it drag me down, and the reward was worth every penny, sweat, hard work, and tear.

Lastly, I’d like to thank Mr Dave Cassell and Miss Sarah Woodhouse for arranging the school trip, and the fundraising, everyone who’s donated to the fund for the past year or so, the whole of our Nepal 2010 team for being fantastic people to live with, not to mention great friends, and especially my parents, who sacrificed so much to get me there. I couldn’t have done it without them. Also, thanks to the friends who were moral support. You were there with me on that mountain.

My Undying Love…

1 Comment

So, I’ve been asked nicely to tell you about my undying love. I’ll describe her to you…

She’s an absolutely gorgeous woman, and if I could, I would marry her. It’s hard to say, though, what my favourite bit about her is. I am almost included to say the tightly sculpted rear end, a thing of sheer beauty, honestly.

However, from any angle, she’s pretty damn sexy. She’s also got this slightly aggressive look, which just turns me on even more. The small body just has something amazingly attractive about it. The curves too, as you can imagine drive any man wild.

I’d be with her every moment I could, if it was possible! Just simply amazing.

And as I said, my love for her is undying! There is a place in my heart for her forever. Finally getting to see her with my own eyes on Saturday, adore her in person, made me the happiest man around.

And who is it? Well, she’s the glamourous, the sexy, vicious and loveable…

RB5! :P

Goodwood Festival of Speed!

Leave a comment

It’s been five days since my magical Saturday, and I only just now feel the time is right to finally note down my thoughts, feelings and experiences of that day. It’s just taken me so long to actually come to terms with it, it was simply that mind-blowing, to the point that I didn’t believe it happened, even with all the evidence, quite positively there, telling me so. Anyway, without further ado, that time starts now.

Saturday morning was an early start. Gates for the Festival of Speed open at 7am, and with a 4 hour drive to get there, that was silly. As it was, my partner in crime, Saira, was moaning enough that I was getting her up at 6:30 am, even though she bought the tickets and wanted to go. I was unsympathetic, getting up at 4am, and leaving before 5. And so the journey began to our rendezvous point, Chichester station, at 9:30. This is, as far as I’m aware, starting to sound like the voice-over for a Top Gear challenge. So, I think I’ll continue!

I was the first to arrive. 30 minutes later, Saira’s train did. So, we wandered about the station, cursing Southern Railways for being like the London Underground, before seeing the train we wanted, rushing through, exactly on time.

I can safely say that the train made me the most nervous I’ve ever gotten about public transport that I’d ever been, especially when my first love as a child was the railways. Anyway, it wasn’t the train itself that was scary, it was meeting the woman on board it for the first time, and making sure my parents didn’t think she was dangerous and drag me off home again.

And there she was, walking down the path. They say that first encounters are something you’ll never forget, which is definitely true. I could tell it was her, there was something familiar. However, it was quite strange, because she was also unfamiliar, yet I could tell it was her. Anyway, it was a comedic moment, as a small woman came up to me, asked if I was in fact Thomas, before fumbling around in her bag for the ticket, as my whole family watched in silence. It was a strange meeting, but I didn’t care. It had worked, I had my ticket, and was off with the woman I had spent so much time talking to for the past 6 months!

I was a bit too shy and also self-concious about my parents to sit next to Saira on the bus. This is something I deeply regret now. It wouldn’t have mattered about my parents anyway, and it meant Saira thinking I wasn’t going to talk to her! I just wish I hadn’t have done it now, it kinda seems silly, and reduced my time with her!

Luckily, after my bus journey to Goodwood House’s golf course, I had considered how I’d break the ice when we arrived, and allowed myself to come out of hiding in my shell.

So, with nothing but the long walk from the bus drop off point to the entrance, we talked, sort of. We were actually very good, and got used to each other quickly, even if we didn’t talk massively!

Once in, we took a quick wander through the Moving Motor Show, discussing our ideal cars. So, if you see a nice Fiat 500 in a metallic lime green colour, please get in touch! It’s not for me, although I do like the colour, but for Saira!

Anyway, it was immediately decided that we’d head up to the F1 paddock, as that’s really what we were both there for! On the way round the outside of the track, we saw a C152 from the Goodwood Flying Club, which prompted many questions on my flying career so far. Apparently I’m not a rich enough pilot yet! We also had a quick look round the supercars. Seeing one Bugatti Veyron would be enough, but there were two there, next to each other! We also saw the McLaren MP4/12C, which was developed using the assistance of Lewis Hamilton!

We kept stopping to check maps. I knew my heading for the F1 paddock, but there was a distinct drawback to the maps of the grounds, they showed where things were, but not the paths to get to them! So, with a little lady who was moaning that I wasn’t as good as navigating as I claimed, we were wandering round by the famous bridge across the track, quite near the F1 paddock, with no clue about where to go.

However, this wasn’t too bad, as we did stumble upon the rally paddock, where I saw Kris Meeke’s Peugeot 206, the Skoda of his title rival, and none other than that mad man who James May rode with last year on Top Gear, Ken Block, standing there with his new Ford Focus WRC! So, that was famous person #1 of the day.

Eventually, a few minutes later, we found the F1 paddock! At which point, Red Bull Racing were firing up the RB1 before rolling it to the holding area. This made me very excited, and so rushed up to the RBR garage to go look! This was the first ever time I heard the noise of an F1 engine, and standing next to it made it awesome. However, it wasn’t as loud as people made it out to be, but never mind! Christian Horner was there too! Then, the engine was switched off, and the crowds pushed back to let the RB1 and the RB5 from last year come out, and I was right at the front of the crowd! Managed to get some real close up looks at the cars, and photos too!

After they left, I went over to find Saira (who didn’t come with me, because she dislikes Red Bull Racing) at the Lotus car. I took a few pictures of that, along with the 2008 Ferrari and the classic and 2008 McLarens which would be running as they got pushed past me.

We then saw a crowd gathering between the Renault engines and RBR truck, so we headed off to investigate. And that’s when Adrian Newey walked straight towards me, putting on sunglasses and a baseball cap as he went, not wanting to be recognised!

We took a look round the F1 merchandising stalls of Red Bull and Lotus. Red Bull brought along a RB4 chassis for people to look at. Now, the RB3 and RB4 cars are very high favourites of mine, and so getting to see one for myself was amazing, and to touch it, better!

We headed back to the holding area, on the way, we had Emerson Fittipaldi walk past us. We then stood behind the Mercedes car, a Brawn GP from 2009, with Nico Rosberg standing by it. Jenson Button came over and said hello to him, just a few metres away from us! Not that it made much difference to poor Saira, she was a little bit too small for the crowd! We then moved over to the end, where I almost walked into Jarno Trulli, Saira’s favourite, who was a bit miserable really, giving a feeble wave as he walked over to the Lotus 79. I got actually rather excited over him, but I blame the company I was in…

We then found a spot with an opening in the hay bales to watch the cars flash past, which we did, before crossing the track for a spot of lunch and a sit down, watching Land Rovers do silly things on metal points.

We then wandered back to the F1 paddock, to see the cars after they returned. I spent about five minutes staring at the RB5, awestruck by the fact that I cheered that car to several wins a year ago. After I was dragged away by Saira, we went round the rest of the paddock, seeing the classic F1 cars too. We then crossed the track to climb the hill ourselves, stopping off before the famous flint wall to see the classic F1 cars, bikes and rally cars, where I was surprised by Mika Hakkinen going past in the W196. We continued on, finally finding the Forest Rally Stage, where we got covered in dust as the cars flung themselves round the corner near us! The modern rally cars often backfire a bit when the gears are hit down under braking. It’s like gunfire! Incredibly loud!

When we reached the top, the F1 cars were coming in, and so we got another brief look at Jenson. And finally, thanks to the kindness of Saira, who said she wouldn’t be with me when I saw him, pointed out Mark Webber, the man I was dying to see! If it wasn’t for her, I wouldn’t have seen him, and so I can’t thank that wonderful little woman enough!

With two hours left, we wandered back down the hill, giving one last attempt at finding Paul Bonhomme’s Red Bull Air Race Edge 540 to no avail, as well as seeing the very car that won the 24 Heures Du Le Mans the other week. We had a final look round the stands, seeing Richard Hammond’s Police cruiser and the Hammerhead-i Eagle Thrust (Geoff) that they made on Top Gear!

We then found a Mercedes SLS AMG F1 safety car, before sitting under a tree, enjoying the last of our amazing day together. I got very excited at this point, as Wade Hammond, Paul Bonhomme’s engineer walked past. In hindsight, I should have asked him to take us to Paul, but oh well. Maybe next time, eh?

And so, we walked the long distance back to the bus, chatting. I was wishing it wasn’t coming to an end, but all good things must, of course. We sat down together on the bus, discussing where we’d want to go together next! It had been an incredible day for the both of us, but having never been anywhere near a running F1 car before, or any drivers, unlike Saira, who is a GP and testing veteran, I think it was something even more for me.

And so it ended. We arrived back at Chichester station, 9 hours after I first met Saira, the absolutely incredible woman who made it all come true! I’d say thank you again, but I think I’ve said it so many times now, she must be completely bored of it! And then it was time for her to go. We said our goodbyes, me offering my hand to shake. I would have hugged her for everything she did, but my shyness held me back a bit, despite feeling completely comfortable in her presence finally.

Then it was me, alone again. It then struck me that I didn’t know when I’d meet her again, if ever! It’s one thing talking over the internet using text, but far better when there’s two people actually together. I had a few minutes to myself, to collect my thoughts after a mind-bogglingly awesome day, before Dad called. It was time to leave Heaven and return back with the normal people, the normal places.

The journey back home was uneventful. I dozed off  for much longer than thought, starting from the A23, and not waking until 20 miles away from Dartford tunnel on the M25! We arrived home safe at 23:14, which was a staggering 18 hours after I woke up!

If you’d like to see the photos I took of the day, feel free to look here

Come on England, I want it to stop!

Leave a comment

Some may have noticed that there’s something happening in South Africa called the ‘World Cup’. Even I have, despite trying to avoid it.

That’s the problem. It’s everywhere. Why? It’s a game. You don’t see the nation literally stop because the Red Bull Air Race is on, and Paul Bonhomme is winning. Neither does everyone take the day off work or school because something actually important has happened.

People care too much over what is essentially a bunch of overpaid men with no other skills kicking a ball to each other. So England won today. And? That’s supposed to have just saved my life in some way, or enriched it, knowing that the world is a better place because someone managed to kick a ball in the right direction. Stupid.

And then there was all that moaning when the team lost. Oh well, never mind, you’re not going to die because of it, so quit complaining and enjoy the summer. If you care so much about the outcome of the matches, go and bloody play it. Don’t go acting as if it was something that could potentially kill.

It’s sad really. It’s just mind-numbingly tedious to watch, yet it seems to be more important than global warming or the budget.

I’m proud to say that I don’t support England. I hope they lose, just so people will shut up about it.

Older Entries

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.